Never validate anyone.

Harsh truth, Ed. No soul wants validation of their person, Ed. Only those who are trying to be something they’re not, seek validation of their person.

Those who ARE already in reality are busy trying to handle their own being.

If they present anything to others or the world, it is out of their own conviction. They will seek support in real ways, and they will get it automatically. Because a natural soul is but a drop of the cloud of humanity, and all those who are also drops of that cloud already agree with the first soul, because they’re bringing water out of the same well.

When someone is seeking validation from you, you’ll know by how you feel drained, you’ll know because you will feel agitated and off-key, psychically harassed and pushed till you go do the gesture of validation – like likes and comments.

These are SERIOUS energy drains. Moderately healthy people with huge energy reserves don’t notice such things, but people like me who are exposed to stuff like microwave radiation, sleep loss etc., we notice this stuff very clearly, because we will not survive one day without being so careful managing our energy.

If you ever feel like you are EXPECTED TO and you MUST validate someone in some way, with some particular gesture; that they won’t be your friend unless you do; you’re being vampirized. Don’t wait to get some disease or lose your hair or whatever. Do you really want to die for the sake of that harassing person/s? Because you are sacrificing your life energy for that.

Outside of this lifetime, that character will cease to exist and your energy will be in limbo looking for you.

In the meantime, you’d have been living a low energy punishment of a life, because your energy is stuck.