Contact with an ex is revival of an expired version of You.

So many people don’t understand, Ed, that once you’re committed to someone, you’re with someone, you can’t have ANYTHING to do with an ex anymore. Not a coffee, not a tea, not a call to discuss something or ask for something or anything.

Everyone thinks it shouldn’t matter if you’re over someone, if you keep being in touch.

But if they’re with someone, committed, and their someone contacts an ex., they immediately feel like like a knife cutting in them.

It’s not about whether someone is over someone or not.

It’s the opening of the door to a person you used to be, that doesn’t match the person you’re with now. Because that person was a modified, or even fake personality, made for that – usually abusive – partner.

And when you open that door, all the energy of the love relationship of now, goes rushing into that – to the old version of you. Nothing can come of it but a drain, because you yourself are no longer that person.

The drain can literally physically hurt a sensitive person to the point they might lose interest in life and not want to live anymore.

Because they keep loving someone and then every now and then that someone opens the door to a past personality – which was made for and therefore will always be connected to the ex.

It’s a MASSIVE MASSIVE DRAIN.

People don’t understand it. It’s about the person we used to be or tried to be, versus who we are now.

We must never let the slightest bit of energy go back into the version of us we outgrew, or let go of to be who we are today.

When you’re with someone now, invest every last little bit of energy in them and the you that loves them and is fine tuning to them.

Never allow all love energy that goes into fine tuning to the person you love, get shredded by you regressing to old fake personas.

Thug world has shown us movies and sitcoms where everyone’s living with their exes around all the time. This is because they intend to have humans energy pool.

When you’re in contact with exes, you open psychic channels allowing them into your love field. People don’t even need to light candles and draw pentagrams to drain you and your love of now.

10/10 times, the ex of a human is malevolent. There is no chance whatsoever of a psychic channel open to them not being used to drain you or whoever is the woman in the relationship first.

The truth is, the majority of women’s health problems are caused by their husband or boyfriend’s exes. I’m telling you the reality I’ve seen. Ignorance about this has caused so much heartache because if the woman wants to physically have energy again, she has to withdraw from the relationship.

In a man’s life it shows in his career and finances. So long as he or his love keeps any kind of communication channels open to exes, he is unable to financially progress. This stress causes a lot of trouble in his life in other areas as well eventually.

If you want you clean up your energy field, simply stop having anything to do with exes.

Ultimately, you cannot afford to keep in touch anymore. It’s not about should you or should you not. It’s about, can you, or can you not.

My books, “Womb” and “Get Your Mojo Back“, have more on this topic.